"CONFLICTS"

"You can't shake hands with a clenched fist."
- Indira Gandhi

Conflict is a fight or struggle between people with different interest. It occurs in all social setting, and has a great impact upon a persons day to day life.
It is the struggle which grows out of two opposing forces. If not with ourselves, then with others. You may have conflicts with your friends, classmates,relatives or even with parents.

Dealing with conflicts is an everyday challenge to most people. A conflict maybe small or big. As a child one would consider conflict being not allowed to play with a toy by a peer. During adolescence conflict seems to change being pressured by friends to do something that he don't want to do, which can lead to a problem. These maybe small conflicts, but it will get worse if not handled properly. An adult conflict seems to be taken more emotionally because of how passionately one feels of their personal view. This conflict is very common with couples today. They loose the sense of trust with each other.

A cold shoulder here, a silent treatment there, is just some of the things a person will receive during a fight. Confronting a person is difficult, especially for me because I have a difficulty with accepting my fault. But I learned that I should learn how to forgive and forget. Feel free to ask one another why the person felt that way and what brought up the situations. They should resolve their problem and work out a compromise that would please both sides. Even if its too hard, we should learn to forget the pain and forget the memory.